Monday, October 19, 2009

The Good, The Evil & The Psychopath..

Evil..

What is it's existence?
Do we need it to exist?
How does it seep into our veins?
How do we counter-effect it?

1)Evil, the quality of being morally bad or wrong; wickedness. One that cause harm, misfortune or destruction.
The Devil one who is known by many names, is correlated as the root of evil itself. How true is this?

A man killed another for money.
Mercilessly, driven by rage and the desire of money he killed a fellow man.

A fellow man who have bright dreams lit ahead, kids waiting at home to welcome him home, a wife at the doorstep to catch a glimpse of his return. Now shattered glass on the cold stone pavement. Broken dreams... Who is the culpriT??? Who is the one who caused his death? Directly to be blamed is the murderer himself of course. But who is the one who directed this man's character, whom is born a pure, innocent baby, to a cold-hearted murderer???No baby is born with the flame of evil in his eyes. No baby is born with the desire to kill. With the desire to only commit wrong doings. To bring destruction.
The answer is closer to home than we think. Family influence, peer influence, the society. The three key elements of creating a perfect evil psychopath. Its time we as a single individual do our part to stomp out the roots of evil.

(to be continued)

Thursday, October 15, 2009

Rep:On JustMiniShorts post...

Post source: http://www.minishorts.net/

She is B-L-U-R alright. What more it seems that she is not the only one. Others are afraid and reluctant to come forward. Cant really blame them. I feel the religion Islam gives born to three types of people. As we all know, Islam preaches disclosure. No aurat(intimate parts) in public. No mini skirt or such. Thighs and elbows are forbidden. Keeping their purity is important in the religion. Partly i wonder if it's also to make men be tempted not to be "naughty", protect the woman from rapist and stuff.

The three catagories are:
1)The Peverted
2)The Decent
3)The Blurs'

1)Knowing sex is like understanding knowledge. Without exposed to this knowledge due to the religion, the curiosity may overpower a person. With no one to guide the rights and wrongs in this knowledge, a person may lose himself in it. Desires is a lustful thing, and not a beast easy to tame. Thus, born The Perverted group.

2)The Decent. Groups in this are generally more open compared to The Blurs'. Maybe family guidence exist and they are guided according to the right path. Peer incluence might guide one to the right path too. A certain percentage of this group may fail to control the beast in them eventhou well informed of the consequences and the sins they are commiting, but the others should be on the right path. This group I see them as Neo-Islam group. Devoted preachers without doubt, but still open minded enough to accept new changes and know the importance of acquiring this knowledge.

3)The Blurs' I'm speechless. Family suppression maybe, on the knowledge itself to protect the child. Or they are just more traditional type who just dont discuss such things with their children.Preferring to put a lid to the knowledge itself, as if its a poison. So the child grew up blur, not knowing what it is. Not knowing the lack of that knowledge may expose them to danger.


Hani in the story might be just one of them of group 3. Thou, she is lucky to not be fully foolish enough to actually make love with that guy. Weight test?? Dxxn who actually believes that? Maybe she never heard of a weighing scale. Sad. Really sad. God bless her.

(Am i wrong in anything i have said??Don't hesitate to tell me so.)

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Utimate weapons

Masterpieces:
Some weapons may not look "right", but in truth if given deep thought it is actually more deadly compared to the conventional version being used now..


Spear




Knuckles(double hand)





Dagger fitted handguns(double hand)




Karambit



Hammer


Sunday, October 4, 2009

Read This Blog!!!!

www.minishorts.net

Its not a sexy web, sorry to disappoint. But a pretty good blog about life.

Its a She's blog. And she has got a temper right now(pregnant now). Not nice to piss her off(She hits back like a nuclear warhead exploding right in your backyard.). However, she is fair and pretty awesome. Ranges anything from food, daily life and experience. Currently married in Malaysia. Take a look, I LoveD IT!!!

Character: Can it be designed??

Character.

A specific combination of qualities or features that distinguishes one person. How its molded? With a combination of experience(school experience, friends experience, personal experience, etc.), environment(beside town, in country etc.), family practices and guidance and etc. it makes you who you are today.

Think back, the best example and the strongest one is when it comes to love. With every fail relationship we learn and acquire something.(Unless your a person who never learns. Start noW) If our first relationship you were cheated against. In the next one you will find one who has a trustable character. At the same time, you learn to be more careful and doubt the minute details of instinct. Why does it happen?

Self-Defense.

A perfect defense created by your mind to avoid you getting hurt again spiritually. Crazy people go BonKeRS because their spirit cannot endure the pain, the stress. Thus it shuts down. Or it might even develop a dual-personality. Or a angry person, a killer. It all depends on a persons personality, his/her beliefs and support from family and community alike.

Putting bad traits aside, we focus how to bring out the best in people. Faithfulness, honesty, bravery, self confidence, etc. Its a very wide field so i will discuss a few and the rest is you to you to ponder and understand.

Self Confidence.
Closely related to courage, its most obvious lacked in obese persons. Reason: They are most teased about in terms of weight. The whole weight issue puts a barrier between them and others. Some maybe lucky enough to still find the comfort of friends and life partners. When this particular group get teased or bullied about it effects their confidence. To them, people don't like them. Fat people they are, they are ugly, useless and etc. This might develop Anorexia nervosa a psychology problem. People who are in the spot light are usually high in confidence. Developed slowly like a staircase, junior drawing champion, senior drawing champion, world-class painter, are all little steps of success and acknowledgment that boost self confidence.

Patience
Anger, anger is actually another form of self defense. An outward violent behavior that blames others, when one feels unjustly treated from people and the world itself in whole. How a person handles in stressful situations since young effects this. It effects whether a person lets it go by, stores it in his/her heart creating an angry momentum, or use certain ways to express their discomfort in an non-anger manner(Like exercising out to work all your anger out for example).
Peer and parental influence plays a role too. How they express theirs is how you Might learn to express yours. That's why violent parents usually have violent children too. That is the way their parents express themselves when angry: getting drunk, trashing household, beating someone, or even abuse someone for the feeling of authority.

Now think about it.


If, IF.. We can create a situation, an environment and scenario where two person will experience the same upbringing, same parents, hear and undergo the same speech of encouragement and despair, same up's and down's in life, same love life, sex life, girlfriends, wives etc. Just everything there is possible, to be the same. Specifically and accordingly the same and equal time-frame. Would them both not be equal in character and personality? Would they be? Twins may not be equal in character due to different life experience. But now two people of same life experience, will they be the same??

My answer is DEFIANTLY Y-E-S (but if so,the two must some sort of be equal in looks too i guess).


By understanding how what factors effect personality and at what magnitude an experience needs to be to effect, we can actually improve our child's upbringing. Instead of being over protective, which cause our kid to be spoilt. We could sometimes let them handle big challenges themselves. Leave clues or give encouragement. We might not be able to create the same result of equal perfect personality, but at least somewhat the right personality in our child.